I recently watched an interview with a celebrity, and she proudly declared that she’s self-made, attributing her success to her own efforts. While it’s understandable to acknowledge one’s hard work, saying ‘self-made’ can be misleading.
Friend, no one is truly self-made (1 Corinthians 4:7). Our success is not just a result of our efforts but also a result of the strategic relationships God has placed in our lives. No one can achieve greatness without some form of help (Acts 26:22).
Claiming to be self-made may seem impressive, but it actually reveals ignorance or arrogance (Romans 16:3-4). Some people love being seen as self-made, thinking it elevates their status. But acknowledging others’ contributions doesn’t diminish us; it shows we recognize our need for help (2 Thessalonians 3:1-2).
If you’re truly self-made, you’re likely not living up to your full potential (2 Timothy 1:6). A self-made person is often limited by their own abilities. We can’t achieve greatness alone; God designed us to achieve greatness through partnership. It is wisdom to recognise and connect with such partnerships (Isaiah 41:7).
The proof of growth and maturity is not independence but interdependence (John 5:30). As we grow, we recognize the need for others. If your vision doesn’t require others, it’s likely too small. A genuine vision from God cannot be fulfilled alone (Habakkuk 2:2).
Grace is an expression of divine help through people (Genesis 37:15). People are God’s instruments, extending His help to us. Jesus, Paul, Joseph, Samuel, David – they all enjoyed God’s help through others (1 Chronicles 12:18, 22). Effort is important, but it’s God’s grace that makes the real difference (1 Corinthians 15:10).
‘Demola Awoyele
Lead Pastor,
Destiny Impact Church
Akure, Nigeria
