I watched my spiritual father closely at that conference, and all I could say within me was, “I want this serenity I see in my father.” Over the years, he has modelled contentment consistently, both in life and in ministry, and his example has deeply shaped my perspective. But his contentment is not complacency.
Friend, contentment is a kingdom virtue you must live by, but it is not the same as complacency. Complacency accepts the status quo and refuses to press for more, even when you know better is God’s will for you (Amos 3:3). Contentment, however, is enjoying where you are on your journey to where God is taking you (Psalms 118:24).
It is easy for covetousness to creep in without notice. It shows up subtly when you suddenly lose interest in what you once valued simply because your neighbour has something better. Covetousness is wanting what God is not giving you, or wanting what God will give you but at the wrong time or in the wrong way (Luke 12:15).
Some people’s prayer points are actually fueled by greed, envy, and strife (Mark 10:37-41). The underlying drive is the need to outshine others and make a statement that God is also good to them. Hannah wanted a child to answer her rival and prove a point before God changed her motive (1 Samuel 1:6-10).
God will not answer prayers that are fueled by envy, strife, and greed (James 4:1-8). This is why answers are delayed. God is not giving to you because He gave to your neighbour, He gives because it is in His plan for you. Inspiration from others is healthy, but it must not breed envy (1 Samuel 1:11).
Greed is often the bait that leads to destruction, and its cure is contentment. What God has for you will not pass you by, so wait on Him and cooperate with Him to birth it (James 1:17). Celebrate what God is doing for others while staying confident that He will come through for you (Hebrews 13:5). You will testify!
‘Demola Awoyele,
Lead Pastor,
Destiny Impact Church
Akure, Nigeria
