ACCOUNTABILITY

ACCOUNTABILITY

At our recently held Singles Mentorship Meeting, someone asked me to share some red flags in a relationship. Among the points I gave was one on accountability. I simply said; “If he does not have an accountability voice in his life, you need to watch out. “I...
HANDLING FAILURE

HANDLING FAILURE

Recently, my daughter got to the final phase of a mini competition and lost. She had won a statewide competition few days before then. I could see her teary eyes after the loss. When we got home, I engaged her in a talk. She told me; “Daddy, it pained me....
COME BOLDLY

COME BOLDLY

Lately, I discovered a tactic deployed by my children. Anytime they need something from me, the elder one would motion the younger to ask me. She feels I’d not reject her younger sister’s request. But I caught her that day as she signaled her to ask me. I...
CHARACTER MATTERS

CHARACTER MATTERS

He was quite vocal and gifted when he came to Church. He had stories of how God had used him in various places and how he has been a pastor and all that. He claimed that God “led” him to our Church. Well, I welcomed him to Church and subjected him to the...
YOU ARE NOT INFERIOR

YOU ARE NOT INFERIOR

It was obvious that all of us on the table were pastors except one person. He began his introduction with these words; “You know, I’m not a pastor like you all, just pardon my level of knowledge.” In his speech, I saw a man who felt inferior because...