Recently, as I was heading out, my kids reminded me to come home on time. I joked about being late, but they weren’t having it. Their mom had already spoken, and they just wanted me home. Despite my numerous engagements that day, I had to set alarms and made sure to get back early. Why? Because I’m a man under authority.
Friend, are you a man under authority (Matthew 8:9)? Authority and accountability are God’s provisions for our safety and health. A man who is not under authority is a danger to himself and those around him. Who a man submits to is more important than what he commands (John 10:19, 30).
A lot of people want to issue commands, but they don’t want to be under anyone’s authority (Acts 19:13-17). The centurion captured it well when he said, “I’m a man under authority, having soldiers under me.” You’ve got to be under authority if you want to be in authority (2 Corinthians 10:6).
Dear singles, don’t marry a man or woman who is not under authority (Genesis 24:22-28). Don’t only ask your prospective husband where he works; also ask him who he submits to. Unfortunately, most singles often ask all other questions except this. A man under authority is safer than a man with authority (2 Corinthians 12:18).
Accountability is not one-sided (John 21:18-22). As a man, my wife and children are accountable to me, but I’m also accountable to them. This is why they could demand that I come back home early. As a pastor, you are not only accountable to God; you are also accountable to the flock placed in your care (1 Peter 5:1-4).
Being under authority is not a curse; it is actually a blessing. It is not bondage; it is true freedom (John 8:31-32). Those who fight authority are victims of rebellion and ignorance. A life without control is a life that will soon be out of control. Be accountable to God, your family, and the church of God (Psalm 68:6).
‘Demola Awoyele
Lead Pastor,
Destiny Impact Church
Akure, Nigeria