Everyone noticed the changes in the life of the young man as soon as he got married. The speed in his career, finances, etc. was unusual. When he had the chance to make a comment, he attributed his success to God and the invaluable wisdom he got from the wife. Truly, women are wise.
Friend, wisdom is a woman (Proverbs 3:15, 31:10). Apart from the Holy Spirit, another major help that God has ordained for the fulfilment of your destiny is a woman (Genesis 2:18). Women are lovely and wonderful. Without them, life would be meaningless and empty. Your success or failure is a function of how you relate with the women in and around your life.
Women are not necessary evils. They are asset and companion in the journey of life and destiny (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12). Whether as mother, sister, wife, daughter, or friend, if you know how to unlock the blessing packaged in these precious gems, there is no height you would not reach in life and destiny. Women possess native wisdom you cannot get in books (1 Samuel 25:23-24).
A wise woman builds (Proverbs 14:1). Get the right woman into your life, and nothing will stay down. This is why you need to have something to build if you really want to maximise the woman in your life. They build homes, businesses, ministries, careers, and destinies. If you are a woman, make up your mind to operate in divine wisdom. Don’t be taken over by folly (Proverbs 14:1).
A wise woman concentrates on her inner beauty (1 Peter 3:3-6). The bulk of what makes a woman is internal. She is more than her package or container. As a woman, work on your internal substance. Let your spirit be loaded. Let your mind be sharp. Let your body only complement your spirit and soul and not compete with them. Your quiet and meek spirit is valuable to God and humanity (1 Peter 3:4).
A wise woman wins battles on her knees, not with her fist (Proverbs 31:18). You can either fight your husband or fight the devil that is fighting your home. Women who fight their husbands are often missing in action on their prayer altar. It is wisdom to take matters to God in prayers. Rather than argue with your husband, let the Holy Spirit work on his heart through your prayers and intercession (Proverbs 21:9, 19). Be a wise woman or marry one.
‘Demola Awoyele
Lead Pastor,
Destiny Impact Church
Akure, Nigeria